how can he be so cold??

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Registered: 09-28-2006
how can he be so cold??
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Sat, 01-19-2008 - 10:35pm
i made the mistake by breaking nc. something i never should of done.i called his phone from a diff cell

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Fri, 01-25-2008 - 2:30pm

I still think, that whether he has a foot out the door already or not- what kind of person starts any type of relationship, fling, ONS, whatever..with someone who has not left the last relationship


As most of you know, in my case, my ex crossed the line and hooked up with some girl. Now I blame him 99.5% for crossing that line. But c'mon....what kind of girl was she? She was FULLY aware that he had a long term gf. The thing is, she had nothing to lose- he did, and he lost it. My sweet revenge will be someday when it happens to her.

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Registered: 09-07-2004
Fri, 01-25-2008 - 7:54pm

Ah, she knew about you.

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Fri, 01-25-2008 - 9:19pm

oh she knew all about me but it was a ONS, not a relationship so he really didn't tell her anything negative...they both knew it was just a fling and nothing would come of it. It was just an ego boost for both of them- selfish, huh? Ruined a really good 2.5 year relationship over- what an hour or two? - with some girl.


He's still paying the price


Still sucks though

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Sun, 01-27-2008 - 12:57am

*raises hand, me too*. Yeah it does stink.

But I mean, from here, many months down the line, I figure I'd rather have a husband that I can trust outside without worrying he'll leave me. The "attracted inside, but do nothing on the outside" partner is what I'm looking for.

But you know what sweet revenge really is? It's when she gets cheated on and you don't care. And though that's v. cliche, it's also very true.


- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your

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