How can someone switch up so quickly???
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How can someone switch up so quickly???
| Sat, 06-03-2006 - 12:40am |
I met a guy a few months ago who had his own place.Come to find out he was separated and suppose to be going thru a divorce.This man started talking future plans with me and telling me how much he care about me.We talked everyday up until he broke things off with me.He is in the military and on one day he informed me that he would be getting stationed overseas for a year or two.Told me that he didnt want to lose what we had and asked me to stand by him for those 2 yrs at most.The next day when he got the full briefing about his next duty station.He found out that it would be somewhere else for 3 yrs min.He switched up to then say he wouldnt ask me to put my life on hold like that for him.Then says he was going to ask his wife whom he was suppose to divorce to go with him so he could have his kids with him.I was speechless to say the least.That same weekend of telling me he take the whole family on a trip to the beach that I helped him plan for just him and his kids.Talk about a kick in the face.he still tells me he loves me and misses me but the talk time is almost down to nothing.I have no response when he says he loves me.My question is how can someone act like they felt so much for someone then just like that switch up and think its ok.what gets me the most is that this man just met my kids and I dont have just anyone around my kids.Im angry,hurt and so many other words rolled into one.I opened up to the wrong person yet again.I feel he never really cared to begin with to do things like this.I try not to let it all get to me but when i have time to sit and think.My emotions get the best of me.

I am so sorry your heart's been broken.