How do I ask for space?
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How do I ask for space?
| Thu, 10-11-2007 - 9:53pm |
The backstory is that my ex-bf called a few weeks ago to apologize for dumping me when he went abroad, but he did not ask to get back together. Since he's been back, I have slowly started to see and talk to him again. But I feel miserable inside... I thought I was ready for friendship, but I really am not. How can I ask for space without coming off as flaky?
Edited 4/7/2008 6:28 am ET by silverdandelion
Edited 4/7/2008 6:28 am ET by silverdandelion

That seems like a pretty straightforward conversation to me:
Edited 10/12/2007 12:00 am ET by silverdandelion
I don't think realizing you're not ready to be friends and acting on that makes you flaky, I think it makes you mature and self-aware.