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How do I break up?
| Sat, 02-09-2008 - 8:09am |
I've decided it needs to be done. He and I are going to drive each other nuts. We are such a mismatch. But how do I do it? I am bad at saying no. I had a long term relationship that had to end about 2 years before it did. But I couldnt get myself to kick him out because he was so broke he couldnt support himself. So stupid me just let him live with me until he finally got

Laurie,
My situation was similar to yours in a way . I knew in my heart that my 4 almost 5 year relationship was no longer. He couldn't hold a job, he was becoming physically abusive as well as verbally. It was slowly coming apart at the seams. We were engaged, and I knew in my heart, he was not the one and I NEVER wanted to legally be bound to this man. He was physically, financially, mentally draining me...mind you I worked full time and I went to school full time, and I had to student teach. It was all WAY too much. Ontop of that, I was constantly worried about him losing his job again, *and he did* ....But I couldn't kick him out.... I just didn't have it in me.Even though the last year, I was so miserable that I had started taking all these pills to make it through the day, and gained a bunch of weight..on top of that