How Do I Fix What I Broke?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2008
How Do I Fix What I Broke?
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Sun, 02-17-2008 - 9:20am

I really need advise...


A guy I had been seeing only for a few months has stopped talking to me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2007
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 12:56pm

Its hard to accept, but the answer is, you

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2008
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 1:56pm
Thank you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2001
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 2:28pm

Yes, do not contact him again.

Soliel
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 8:40pm

I would send him an apology by email and then you can apologize again by phone or in person.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2008
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 9:28pm
I agree with the posters that said, DONT CALL OR CONTACT HIM UNTIL HE CONTACTS YOU. Otherwise he will expect to see a rabbit boiling in his kitchen (Fatal Attraction).
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2008
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 10:43pm

Sheri,
That is a great point!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2008
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 9:07am

You really are making yourself look like a fatal attraction with the constant calling.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 10:52am

You're welcome--I think so often we are concerned with whether the guy likes us, that we lose sight of whether he's really a good match or not!


I just wanted to clarify, the way I read your original post, it sounded like you did NOT apologize in your previous contacts with him (prior to yesterday's call) because you wanted to apologize in person or at least over the phone--that's why I suggested you contact him to apologize because I thought you had not.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2008
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 11:53am

No, I hadn't apologized prior to yesterday, which is why I posted originally.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 12:35pm

Welcome to the board lostsarch,


Letting go, as hard as it is, is the way to go at this time.

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