How do I get him to understand NC?
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How do I get him to understand NC?
| Sun, 12-17-2006 - 7:00pm |
I broke up but he continues to call. He doesn't understand why I dont' call him once in a while. He says if I cared about him I would call. I have tried to explain that communicating keeps things confused, but he doesn't get it. He says that he wants to know how I'm doing once in a while. He wants us to be friends. I tried to explain the thing about jumping from a romantic relationship to friendship not being possible without time apart. He replied with "oh, I didn't realize our relationship was just about sex". I have tried to tell him that I do care about him but right now, communication makes things harder. He thinks that my feelings for him must be stronger than I let on when we were together.
What should I do?

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No. If you're going to say that, don't put a time frame on it...just let him know you'll be in touch when you're ready to be friends.
But I think you've already TOLD him that you aren't ready to be friends a bunch of times, haven't you? I would just block him from emailing you and be done with it.
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