How do I get over breakup???
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|Thu, 12-27-2012 - 10:08am|
My boyfriend and I were together for about a year and a half when he left me last October. I did everything for him, cleaned his house and did his laundry, cooked for him and did all his errands. I won’t go into details but he became very mean and unavailable (Could not reach him on phone, had to chase him down, etc., he would not do favors for me but would do favors for friends). He left me on Halloween, saying he was trying to dump me for a month but I was so stupid I couldn’t figure it out.
In January he came back. I had already established a new life; I went out every Friday with friends and had gone on a few dates. We began dating again and a few months later for my birthday he gave me expensive earrings with a card stating how I was the best thing that happened to him.
We have been together since and he treats me like a queen and is very good to me. I no longer clean his house or do his laundry or do his errands although I do cook for him once in a while.
My problem? I can’t get over the breakup. I am still bitter and kick myself because I never asked why he came back to me as I was so happy he did. When I try to talk to him about it, he says I am persevering over the past and things are different and asks what he is doing wrong and doesn’t he treat me good? I admit he is very good to me. But I can’t get over the breakup.
My friends think I will not be able to move once until we talk about the breakup, but he says that was the past and we need to start a new chapter. His reason for the breakup was that we were always fighting (which we were) and he could not take the drama anymore. He never really SAID why he came back…
Advice please. Am I persevering or what? What would you do in my shoes??? And if I am persevering, how do I get over it???
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