How do I get rid of him???
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| Sat, 08-07-2004 - 1:07am |
I'm new here and I'm desparate! My "boyfriend" has been living in my house for most of the last two years. I kicked him out back in February because he hardly ever worked and spent most of the little money he made partying. He promised me he'd changed his ways, and I let him move back about 10 weeks ago. Now I'm right back where I started. I've made it very clear to him that I don't want him here. He keeps promising me he'll get his own place as soon as he makes enough money. But he apparently has no intention of ever making enough money. He's been out partying for the last eight hours on an advance from his next (3 day) paycheck. I've begged him to leave. I've demanded he leave. I know his wife (yes, he's still legally married) would LOVE to have him live with her. He's admitted to having sex with her on two occasions since we've been together, but she says it's a lot more than that. But she's on welfare (he doesn't pay child support), and I make good money, so he'd rather live with me. So he does have a place to go. He just refuses to leave! I've told him over and over that I don't want to be with him. Sometimes I get really nasty about it, and I hate being like that. But I also hate him using me and bleeding me dry. I guess I'm going to have to get some legal help, but I don't even know where to start. It's not a matter of domestic violence, or a landlord/tenant thing (I don't think), considering he doesn't pay any rent. If you've read this far, thank you so much for listening! And if you have any advice at all, I thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Thanks,
Sue

Is he still your boyfriend? You never said anything about breaking up with him.
What I would do is tell him that he has a week to move out, otherwise I am going to change the locks. And if he wasn´t out in that time I would change the locks and pack his bags and leave them outside. And not open the door for him. And never keep in touch with him again.
Maybe you can also call the police and ask some help.
Good luck!
Katriella
Sheri