how do i get through this
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| Wed, 05-30-2007 - 10:18pm |
Right now I really can't go into detail...I am hurting way too much. I have lost my family ( well, my childs father) I feel like I can't go on! I don't know what to do. I need to pull it together for my son. All I can think about is him with this other women, who said she was my friend. Now she left her family and he is gone too. Two families detroyed....she is an alcoholic and chain smoker, I don't want my son around that..It is so unhealthy. I miss him so much. I can't do this. I don't know alot of people here, they are all his friends. How do I do this!! When will this pain stop. I am so madly in love and he's just gone...I have told him that we need to have no contact except with emergencies with DS because I just can't take this!
nik

Sweetie, I am so sorry you're hurting. We all know how it feels. But you
will make it through this. There is no other option. Either you get strong
and stay strong for your son, or his father and that other woman will raise
him, without you. Knowing that my ex would raise my son without me
has gotten me through some really hard times. You will make it. You
can. You must.
It hurts so much at first it feels like you can't breathe. But you
can. It does get better. I promise. Time is what you need, and
it is what you have.
I have found a great deal of comfort on this board. Its nice to know
you aren't alone. None of us are.
You deserve better than a man who sleeps with your friend. Right now you
need to focus on yourself and healing.
Welcome to the board i_beanzo,
You take it one moment at a time if need be.