How do I handle seeing him?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2007
How do I handle seeing him?
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Sun, 03-16-2008 - 6:16am

My ex and I split 3 weeks ago and we've had no contact since!


We met through a sports club that we both go to and I was wondering how do I handle seeing him there?


During one of the heated discussions that we had leading to us breaking up he told me that he'd rather I didn't go back because it would just make it harder -

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 1:01pm

helllo
your post caught my eye because I too have to deal with seeing the guy I was dating and I can not avoid this because we work together! i know it is going to be awful (tomorrow seeing him for the first time since we broke up) but i have come to the conclusion that I have no choice but to go on with my life and deal with it even if i have to force a fake smile all day!

my advice to you is go on with your daily life and dont let him rob you of things that you enjoy doing just because he says that he would rather you not go. i mean who is he to tell you where you can and cant go? if he has such a problem with it than he can switch clubs. just play it cool and have him wondering what you are smiling about.

good luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2007
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 1:40pm

That's kinda my thinking too - I'm just dreading it!


Hope it goes well for you tomorrow - as they say the best revenge is living well!