How do I stop caring?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2006
How do I stop caring?
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Fri, 09-24-2010 - 10:20pm
I know its over but I car eso much and miss him and it hurts ... we are still friends and he is so understanding about it all it makes it harder.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2009
Sun, 09-26-2010 - 8:58am
I'm sorry things didn't work out, but staying friends with him will not bring you closure. You need to explain to him that for you to move on emotionally, you two will need to stop contact. In my past, I deleted e-mail addresses, phone numbers, photos, and stopped all contact with exes. They are in the past for a reason. You learned from your experience, and it's time for closure. Wish him the best and in time, you will find a new love who will appreciate the fact that you don't stay in touch with someone with whom you were once romantic. Your new and total focus will be on the man who is right for you. Take care.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2006
Sun, 09-26-2010 - 10:29pm
not sure if my other post psoted but anyway as I said he is trying to be nice I think and it makes it harder, I would rather him be an ass and make it easier for me to get over ... I guess I need more willpower to pull back.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2009
Mon, 09-27-2010 - 8:59am
You need to follow my previous advice and discontinue communication with him. Men are sometimes nice after the break up to see if they can catch you at a weak moment so you