How do you get over it?
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How do you get over it?
| Sun, 03-27-2005 - 2:50pm |
What advice do you have to help get over someone? How do you stop your self from thinking about him all the time,-wondering if he's thinking about you, wondering what he's doing, etc? How do you stop yourself from thinking " what if I had done this or that, would we still have broken up? In other words, please tell me HOW you move on and get through this??
Thank you!
Thank you!

Here you go...this is a link to a post that has excellent, practical suggestions...and they WORK, if you stick to them:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlmendingbro&msg=9612.1
Sheri
Thanks for answering. I have read a lot of this board, going down the list to several months back. All I can say is that I am really happy I found this board. My friends are so sick of listening to me. One friend tells me " just keep feeling your feelings. It's bad to stuff your feelings" Another friend says "just force yourself to think of something else" I don't know which person is right. One thing I read somewhere in a post below, was to make a list of things you didn't like about him. For me that will be hard, because we got along so well, but there were a few little things that irritated me. Everyone keeps saying to keep a journal, which I have been avoiding because it just seems like it is more of the " just dwelling on the pain" But at this point I am willing to try anything. I am so sick of feeling like this. It's been almost 4 months, and I just wish I could go through one single day without thinking about him.
Of course, at work, it's better, because I am busy. But in the evenings and the weekends, it's really hard, because we spent every mintute together. LIke I said, I am so thankful I found this board. Thanks for listening