How do you get over ur ex??
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| Fri, 12-16-2005 - 3:22pm |
Ok so this might be an obvious question but i cant seem to get over my ex!
My ex finished with me 2 mths ago and since then we go a few weeks without talking, then one of us will text the other and we end up meeting and sleeping together. Each time i promise myself its the last time, but as soon as i hear from him again i desparetly want to see him again and for an hour or so he's my boyfriend again and its exactly like before. I know i should stop seeing him, but the though of not seeing him gets me more upset and i dont want to carry on like this for the next year or so!
I know he miss's me but says he doesnt want a girlfriend, part of me is hoping that he'll change his mind but maybe im just kidding myself??? Everytime i decide to explain to him i dont want to see him again i decide not to because i know i'll just get upset and cant face it being 'final'. Obviously this is driving me mad, i just want to be over him but at the same time i want us to be together and for it to be like it was. Help!

Dev is right. You have a choice: the pain of continuing to see him and being in limbo, hoping for something that will probably never happen (with no end to the pain in sight), or you can choose to stop seeing him, which will be painful for a while but that pain will end eventually, and you'll be ready to meet someone who DOES want a relationship with you.
I know those are not very good options, but unfortunately those are the only choices.
Sheri