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How do you know when you're ready?
| Thu, 08-23-2007 - 8:54am |
I am a single mom w 3 terrific kids (17, 15, 9). I was in a serious relationship for 1.5 yrs with a very kind, compassionate, loving man whom I respected and loved very much. I met him on a dating website... and discovered long distance relationships are difficult. He, after processing for a while, decided that he didn't want to be a step-dad... his kids are grown and he doesn't want to start over raising a family .... obviously love does NOT conquor all, because we truly loved each other and were planning a life together. We connected on every level, but I have to respect his decision and let him go (as difficult as it is). I'm 41 and live in a relatively small city ... feeling a little ...(like my options are limited). People say I am very attractive, intelligent, and compassionate ... but I can't help but think there's no one out there (in my relatively small community) who would want to start a relationship with someone with 3 kids. I would not consider moving because my kids come first and need stability ... so internet dating is questionable. Any thoughts?

I don't have any advice...but..
Heck, Angelina Jolie found a Brad Pitt while she had a kid, and judging from your post, I don't think she has anything on you. Perhaps the man of your dreams is right in front of your nose.
good luck!
Susanna