How long has it been..

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Registered: 08-17-2003
How long has it been..
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Sun, 07-04-2004 - 8:39pm
Since you and your ex have talked/seen each other since the break up?


For me, We broke up just over 2 months ago, And I haven't seen him for about a month, and I haven't talked to him in a week (the investigation for my job just finished, so he's blocked and deleted again :)... I'm getting there!!!


I was thinkin, it's too bad we all didn't live in the same city, imagine how much fun all us "heart broken" girlies could have on a night out in the town together? ;)

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Registered: 05-30-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 2:44pm
It has been 2 months and 7 days since we last saw or spoke to each other. That was the night he broke up with me. He's been popping up on AOL IM lately but has not messaged me and I have not messaged. We never discussed NC, it just happened like that. Kind of makes me wonder if he will ever contact me again.

I have been thinking for awhile that it would be nice to get together with some of other ladies on the board. How about this for an idea - since we live all over the U.S. & the world, why don't we break it down into areas. I live in New York City, so why don't all the ladies who live in the tri-state area get together in Manhattan one night. We can meet at a bar for drinks and than dinner or whatever. This can be done all over the place. That way we can support each other not only on the board but in real life. What do you all think?

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Registered: 01-07-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 3:05pm
Ladyophelia

I am in NJ, just outside of NYC.

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Registered: 05-04-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 3:30pm
i live in new york city also! im in the process of moving, if we all want to meet up somewhere we could do it in late august, but i couldnt until then because im so frazzled!

and as for the original matter hand...i have not spoken to my ex since march 22nd, which makes it exactly 3 months and 2 weeks.

now thats how long we've gone without speaking. we did exchange a few brief emails for a short time, and the last time we emailed as memorial day weekend, so its been about a month since that.

am i doing better? i can never guage. i've done a lot in the past few months but th etime has really flown by, and when i think back all i can think of is how sad i was for a large part of it. i think once i move to my new place a lot of good thigns are going to happen for me becuase im planning to join some club or something, plus i think just having a break from this area where i've been so long is going to help me.

time does help, its just such a slow climb...

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Registered: 05-30-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 4:44pm
An evening in last August in Manhattan sounds good to me. We should definitly plan to meet either right before or just after the Republican National Convention. From what I have been hearing, the city will be in total lockdown mode and it will very difficult to get in or out.

So...anyone else from the NYC area who wants to meet, let us know and we'll set something up!!!

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Registered: 03-20-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 8:31pm
Hey thats where I am!
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Registered: 03-20-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 9:27pm
Malena78 if you want to we can meet up while you are here. I think that would be cool especially if you haven't been here I could show you around. Tell me what you think.

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