How long should I wait before I give up?

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Registered: 10-15-2007
How long should I wait before I give up?
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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 8:15pm

I'm sorry, this is my first time doing this and it might be really long...


My boyfriend and I have recently broken up.

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Registered: 04-27-2006
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 9:43pm

Hey issa-


I'm sorry you're going through this.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 10:00pm
hey zjaney, how'd you get so smart on giving space? ;-)

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Registered: 04-27-2006
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 10:11pm

You know... there's this guy I know......


.... Very funny Sandra!!

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 12:03pm

Hugs, girl.


My internet went kaput right in the middle of my message to you last night.

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Registered: 10-15-2007
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 5:24pm

Thanks for the response

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Registered: 05-06-2003
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 11:56pm

I know how you feel. I've been in your shoes. Actually I AM in your shoes right now, except it was with someone who really didn't care about me, or at least I'm not sure anymore. It's hard to let go of someone, but unlike the others, I will say, move at your own pace. Take your time, grieve, cry it out, etc. Have a bit of hope if it helps you out. Sometimes having that bit of light in an otherwise dark room, is a good thing.


Move on when you feel like moving on.


We make our own timetables.


In time, things will pan out the way the Universe wants, I think.


Have you ever heard of the The Secret, where like attracts like. If you have a positive outlook on things, you will attract positivity to you.

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Registered: 10-15-2007
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 5:57pm

Thanks for the message dutchess. I'm sorry you're going through this too.


This is so hard, I feel like my life has just fallen apart. I just miss him so much. And as for that hope that we will be together again, it seems after all the advice, it would be foolish of me to hold on to that hope. At least that's what I keep trying to tell myself. But a part of me just can't let it go. I'm so confused.