HUGE PROBLEM

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Registered: 06-15-2004
HUGE PROBLEM
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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 1:17am
Hi everyone! Okay...I have quite a mess here and need advice please! Okay...I am wanting to break up with my boyfriend of 3 months (we met one night and hooked up really fast before really getting to know eachother) because my boyfriend is really into himself and drinking more than he is into me, and even though he says he loves me...I think he loves the idea of just being in love. Plus I have fallen for another guy during these past 3 months and normally that wouldn't be a problem, except the other man is his room mate/best friend. I know it's horrible...and I feel bad even feeling this way, but I'm human and can't help how my feelings come along. Anyways, I know that his friend is attracted to me and really likes me...so how would I go about breaking up with my current bf and then try to get hooked up with his friend? Any suggestions or comments would be helpful thanks!!!


Edited 7/24/2004 1:37 am ET ET by letitbetori
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Registered: 04-07-2003
In reply to: letitbetori
Sat, 07-24-2004 - 9:05am
I think your first priority is ending it with the drinker. Just tell him you don't want to see him anymore.

As for the room mate. Personally, I'd wait a month or two before approaching him. don't jump from one guy to another (especially where they live together). After you break up with his friend there's a chance he won't be interested anyway.

the most important thing is taking care of you. If you're not happy with your bf, get out!