Hurt & Confused

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Registered: 04-04-2006
Hurt & Confused
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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 12:15am
My boyfriend was my first & we had been dating for 7 & half months. I was madly in love with this guy, & I thought he felt the same. However he dumped me not last Sunday afternoon, but the one before. You see he called me on my mobile (I wasn’t home from work yet) & said we weren’t breaking up but he needed some space apart. Naturally I was upset but was like ok then. He called me later that night & said we were going to break up & just be friends. We agreed to meet the next day, but I was so devastated that mum took me away with her. So I tried calling him on Tuesday. His mum answered the phone & went off at me & said he wanted nothing to do with me. So when I got back the next day I went & saw him during his lunch break. He said he was sorry & that he still loved me a lot, but just wanted to be friends and see where it went from there. He called me that night after my friend texted him, & we talked for about an hour. He said he missed me & this was hurting him badly. He also begged me to let him be there to help me get through this. I called him the next day & his mum answered & said he didn’t want to speak to me. I explained that he had called me last night & she said if he had she was going to kick his ass! He rang me back & when I asked him if he just wanted me to never speak to me again he said yes! I was soooo confused. I let it be & then another mate of mine called him to find out what’s going on for me on Sunday afternoon. He said he would call me later. I also had reason to believe I was really sick…….. I called him & he just hung up on me. I got a male mate of mine to text him. He then texted back saying not to contact him for a very long time. I got my mate to reply for me saying I wouldn’t because I can’t forgive him for doing this to me. Also my pop is dying and it was right when all my exams and that were on. I don’t think he cares. I reckon he wanted out & just waited till I stuffed up to use that as an excuse. I HATE HIM. Also apparently he said the day after he broke up with me he needed to visit a brothel because it had been a week. It had been 2 days & at that point I thought there was some of hope of use getting back together so I had said I was there if he needed me......PIG!
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Registered: 09-05-2003
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 7:23pm
hi fuzznut,
he sounds like a jerk. visiting a brothel?! you don't want to be involved with someone like that. or someone who gives you confusing mixed messages. i think from another post you said you were 17... you're so young! you have so many more men to meet. try to stay away from this guy. ignore his calls and texts. and hang in there -- you're going through a hard time with your dad; take good care of yourself and stay away from destructive people who will keep hurting you.
hugs...