hurting

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Registered: 09-11-2005
hurting
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Wed, 11-07-2007 - 7:52am
I posted on here yesterday and last night was the first night away from him. I didn't sleep at all last night! He has called me 5 times. Yes I did answer a couple of times and I just don't understand how all of a sudden everything is my fault. He is now saying that I am the selfish one and that I am running away from problems in our relationship! I know that relationships are tough and I was willing to work on ours and make it work, but he is the one that said he doesn;t have the time aand energy to make it work and he is the one that refuses to stop talking to the other woman!!! I hav tried for 2 yrs to make it work, but I can't do it alone. I just don't understand why he has to make me out to be the bad guy! We made this mutual decision on monday night and now all of a sudden i am the one at fault for leaving!!!! I know I shouldn't talk to him, but it's like a sickness or something. I really truly love this man! How can I make him see that I am not the one at fault here. I didn;t make him cheat on me. All I asked is that he cut off all contact with her, but he said he isn't willing to do that!!!!! if you want to read the whole story I posted yesterday on when will the pain go away!!!! This board and your advice really helps!!!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: sweetgirl310
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 11:42am

Hi sweetgirl310,


Here's

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2007
In reply to: sweetgirl310
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 12:14pm

Carrie wrote: Unfortunately, what he's doing is normal especially for cheaters, in my opinion.

Hugs,

 

Dbest