Hurting....

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Registered: 07-07-2003
Hurting....
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Wed, 04-26-2006 - 9:38am

It's been two weeks of nc. His brother came to talk to me yesterday. He says that my b/f didn't feel the same way as I did so he left. He didn't want to waste my time. Three years together and just three months ago he said that I was "the one".

I feel like curling up in a ball and dying.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2005
In reply to: aggie778
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 9:59am
Aww yeah this sucks huh. Well I haven't been on that side of the situation. but I have been on the other, i was the one who did the breaking up with. He did this because he felt it was right, and doing the right thing isn't always the easiest thing. It's tough for him too, so even though he may not seem hurt, i'm sure he is, it's just a different kind of pain, believe me i know. You can look at it and be glad you didn't get married and then he did this. Just a thought. But I'm sure nothing helps right now. Time is key here, each day will help you get better. and just think, you will be steps closer to being with the right person, the person who doesn't make you guess and play games. Hang in there, you will come out of this, and things will get better...
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: aggie778
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 2:27pm

DONT WORRY ABOUT IT DEAR. TIME WILL COME. TRUST ME SOONER LATER HE WILL REGRET WHAT EVER DESICION HE MADE. NO MATTER WHAT LIFE MUST GO ON. SHOW HIM THIS AND SHOW HIM THAT YOU COULD LEAVE EVEN WITHOUT HIM.

GOOD LUCK

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Registered: 02-08-2006
In reply to: aggie778
Fri, 04-28-2006 - 11:16am
i know what ur going through. i've been with mine for 4-1/2 years and so use to him that i'm scared to leave him. i think i just need the right push tho. i know how you feel and i'm sorry you feel like that. i mean we just need to hump up and move on.. ya know?