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this hurts like crap!
| Tue, 06-20-2006 - 8:12pm |
My boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me 2 months ago saying that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship yet. I was so heartbroken but we stayed friends and some days it would be okay, and some days it was so hard, but I didn't want to give up being friends with him! We have been talking pretty regularly and for a while we were acting like we weren't even broken up. This girl that he liked before we started dating has come back in town for the summer and he has been talking to her and stuff. Some of his friends were trying to hook one of his friends up with her and he said "What? Am I not good enough?". Anyways, so since she has been in town, we haven't talked at all. He hasn't called me and I don't want to bother him by calling him. I am so scared to move on! I don't want to lose him! But then again, I don't want to be the stupid one that sits around and waits for a guy that has already moved on. Just last week he kissed me and he told me he wanted to marry me though! Guys are soo confusing! What should I do?

He's going to eat all the cake you let him have.
Dear, I would back off this one for a bit. It sounds like you are a bit too convenient for him. Really, he is stuck on this other girl and you deserve to have a man who wants you for you, not because he can't get someone else!
I realize that you care for him, but stay away from him (no kissing) for a few weeks to give him time to decide what and who he cares for and to decide for yourself what you NEED from a man. Remember, he's not the only attractive nice guy out there. Besides, a truly nice guy doesn't back off from one he loves to try for someone else.
You deserve sooo much better than this kind of treatment!!
hi itsmeagain2006
well if he mention to you that his not ready in any serious relationship. what make you think that he'll be serious with her? not with you?
dont get me wrong but actually this whats wrong with as ladys we assumed too much and make things harder for us. think about it? i dont think all the girls they like they will get it.
also what i think your not ready to be friends with him coz your still getting hurt if you hear things like about the girl..its hard to be friends with the exbf...unless both side are all ready move on.