I always get rejected by girls l Like

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Registered: 06-18-2006
I always get rejected by girls l Like
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Sun, 06-18-2006 - 5:12pm

I was browsing through myspace and this girl caught my eye. She was 18.

I message'd her and she message'd. She has told me I have looked familier and all that and I have told her the same. However, we didnt go to the same school....so I don't know where I have seen her from. I told her that someday that maybe me and her should hang out sometime. We been talking for days and she seemed interesting. She said I was really cute and she was single.

However, after I told her I was 20 she was like...

"oh ok. you are 20?
well, ttyl. gonna go have a smoke"

and thats the last time I have heard from her, after that she wouldh't return my messages. I don't know what I did wrong? 2 years part is not much and she is 18. Its legal.

What did I do that made her lose interest?

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Registered: 04-16-2006
Sun, 06-18-2006 - 7:30pm

Hello,

She probably feels you are too old for her. Let it go and look for someone closer to your own age. Legal or not, 18 is very young and borderline. Look for a girl 20 years or older.

Dont contact her again. She is not interested.

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Registered: 06-18-2006
Mon, 06-19-2006 - 2:12am

I just need help. I think she is the one for me. She has to be. I feel it. I just gotta get her attention again somehow. But I dont know what to say because I feel no matter what I say to her, she will not reply back and I just want to know why she would do something like that...

What can I do?
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Edited 6/19/2006 2:20 am ET by darkdavid
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Registered: 04-16-2006
Mon, 06-19-2006 - 4:34am

Her not replying to you should be a hint. She isnt interested. I am sorry to say that. If she liked you she would reply to your messages. Look for people you meet on a daily basis in PERSON...NOT those on MYSPACE...most of the time people arent who they say they are there. MYSPACE is a scam.
I wouldnt be surprised if this girl is really 16 years old. Anyone cant write whatever they want on MYSPACE.




Edited 6/19/2006 4:36 am ET by libitina1972
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Registered: 06-18-2006
Mon, 06-19-2006 - 6:12am

Ok, She is the one that started it, leaving me comments on my pictures. So I thought she was interested in me.

Thats the thing, she was interested at first, you see. I it wouldn't bother me if she just rejected me right off the bat. But I got to know her a little bit during the few days we talked to each other...

I just don't know what happened and Im confused

I was thinking about sending her something sweet. Just to get her attention againher.




Edited 6/19/2006 6:18 am ET by darkdavid
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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 1:55pm
Ummm....
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Registered: 06-16-2006
Mon, 06-19-2006 - 6:14pm

hi darkdavid

i think being so persistent will lead you to her..just like my exbf..he was soo persistent at first i dont like him..for some reason if he call me i ignore his calls. just like the girl ignoring you.

well until oneday i felt so bad for doing that to him...finally i answer his calls and his being so nice with me and my son..i gave him a shot. believe or not i felt inlove that fast to him...but lately i guess i'm being so jealous and he get tired of me..maybe his feeling start fading...and our relationship end.

well on your situation...dont give up...keep on trying. i mean you never know unless you try RIGHT?

GOOD LUCK..

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Registered: 06-19-2006
Mon, 06-19-2006 - 10:30pm

I agree

I think you should at least try one last time, because then you'll know for sure. After all, she might genuinely have needed to go at the time - it might not have had anything to do with you or your age.
If she doesn't respond, then it's a pretty good indication that she's not interested.

However, if you have been writing her since that conversation and she's not responded, ...then she probably isn't interested. The other possibility is that she's not been checking her mails recently. If she comes back to check them later on and sees a huge backlog of 'why haven't u responded, where have you been' emails, she might get a little freaked out.

But if you're sending her IMs while she's online and she's not been responding, i think it's fair to say that she's ignoring you for a reason.

At the end of the day, if you don't see her around regularly or have mutual friends, you've definitely got nothing to lose by trying one last time, but hopefully something to gain - even if it's only the loss of the 'what if' burden for the rest of your life...

all the best with it
stay blessed