I am going crazy

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Registered: 03-12-2007
I am going crazy
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Mon, 03-12-2007 - 12:16pm
My boyfriend of four years broke up with me about a month ago because he is in the navy and we do not live in the same state anymore and he said it was too hard. I then find out that a lot of the reason he broke up with me was because I had hurt him in the past and he couldn't get over it. After we broke up he would drunkenly call and message me saying things like "I miss you" and "I don't want you to move on, but I don't want to be together". He also told me that he still wanted to be best friends with me. Now he has decided to out of the blue just completely stop talking to me because he thinks that it is "necessary". I have messaged and called a couple times and he won't answer to either, I am going crazy because I still want to be with him and I don't know if this is just a lost cause and I should move on, or if I should give him sometime to clear his head. blah blah blah, I'm sick of feeling like this.
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Registered: 11-03-2006
In reply to: emma254
Mon, 03-12-2007 - 12:19pm
As hard as it might be, I would definitely give him his time. While he is figuring himself out, you should focus on yourself. Give yourself a pedicure, read a new book, watch a movie... Do anything other than just sit there and think about what he's doing and what is going to happen next. He will come around if and when he is ready to. Just keep your head up.