I am obsessed with other girlfriend..why?!

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Registered: 03-15-2011
I am obsessed with other girlfriend..why?!
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 2:24pm

I was in a 3 mth relationship

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 3:23pm

I think your self-esteem (or ego, whatever you want to call it) took a huge hit when you found out that you were only a "side dish" to some jerk's "main course", and that he probably liked her better than you.

I hope you can understand that being desired, or not, by this kind of guy means absolutely nothing.

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Wed, 05-25-2011 - 4:05pm
Because in your mind, you think she "beat you" for this guy's affections when in all truth, you both won by getting away from him.

Just for your own sake, when a guy starts coming on super-strong in the very beginning (saying you're the one and he wants to marry you right away), in my experience both personal and from years CLing this board, that kind of talk goes as easily as it comes, meaning, it's not worth much. Don't let yourself get too caught up in someone's sweet nothings too quick; I know it's nice to hear and all and you should enjoy them, but pay attention to make sure that *over time* what they say and what they do is consistent.

You'll be over this quicker when you spend more time actually doing things than just pining away. Idle hands and all that...

Good luck!

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