i believe i just ended it

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Registered: 11-16-2006
i believe i just ended it
Thu, 07-05-2007 - 2:37am

...and i'm ok with it.

I've been thinking about it over the past couple of weeks, we've been on and off for just over a year, and everything was fine between us. But there was always something in the back of my mind that said he would "disappear" again.

After getting used to seeing him 2-3 times a week over the past 4 months, it was odd that I didn't see or hear from him for a week and a half. So I sent him a text message, "Disappear, again?" He responded, "Busy before summer trip. How are you?" Turns out, he's on vacation for a couple of weeks (and did not tell me --- how messed up is that?) A couple of days passed, I finally responded, "Away? Hmmm...interesting. I get it." No reponse.

Given his track record, I believe I won't hear from him again. Yes, it is sad. But at the same time, I've set myself free from this turkey.