I broke it off, but now having second thoughts....
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|Sat, 04-20-2013 - 8:32pm|
I broke of my relationship of 3 years with my girlfriend (I'm a guy) this past Sunday. The reason for doing so is a result of a lot of things that made me feel I was being moved to the friend-zone, such as seeing less and less, and not being invited to some casual family functions. Not all, but some to make it noteworthy.
The straw that broke the camel's back was that she told me she was planning a cruise vacation. With her parents.... and a gal pal of hers. Aparrently, she said she didn't ask me, because I said something about my lack of interest in cruises after the latest disasters Carnival had, and assumed I wouldnt go. Anyway, that really set me off that I was passed over for a friend, and I stewed all weekend w/o talking to her and skipping out on some family gatherings I WAS invited to.
Thinking back this past week, I feel like I cut off my nose to spite my face, and made a mistake, and want to get her back. Commuincating our feelings (of lack thereof) have always been the crux of our arguments, especially when I'm the cause. I'm the type to pout and bottle it up until it bursts apart and starts a argument.
I want the chance to be able to express this to her and my hope to try to get together again with the agreement that we work on communicating our feelings to each other right away and more often. I already asked her yesterday if she would talk, but she said she wasnt ready. When would be a good time to open up communication and bring up my feelings of working this out and trying one more time?