I broke the no contact rule

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Registered: 12-13-2007
I broke the no contact rule
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Fri, 01-18-2008 - 11:19pm

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 01-19-2008 - 12:28am

Start No Contact all over again. Grieve for what might have been, for what could have been, for what you hoped would have been.


Relationship Grieving Process

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Sat, 01-19-2008 - 8:29am

In addition to what Carrie has posted to you, I wanted to say that it's always so amazing to me that if you let a person talk long enough, they usually come up with the answers on their own. ;-)

....."I don't know maybe god wanted me to meet him, to help me see that there are nice guys out there, and maybe I did meet a true friend. Who knows maybe this is my first step, meeting a nice guy maybe the next one will be even better. I just want to get over feeling like dog poop lol.".....

I think the fact that it was only three months was a complete blessing in disguise, because that's long enough to spend time with someone and enjoy getting to know them, enjoy the attention and see what's possible with a nice guy, and yet short enough to not get so thoroughly attached that it takes a long time to get over the end of the relationship.

You've been given a taste of what's possible in a relationship with a nice guy. More men like this will be in your future, because now you know what is possible and won't accept less, that's another blessing. All of what he said does sound like excuses to leave he relationship, so simply learn to say, "We weren't right for each other." And you weren't and couldn't have been, because if he had been right for you, he wouldn't have become interested in the ex. Just in case this may be necessary later on: If he decides that being with her again wasn't necessarily the green grass he thought it would be, think three or four times before considering allowing him back again in that way.

Do please scrub your email off your post, and welcome to the board.

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Sat, 01-19-2008 - 9:13am