I called him....

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Registered: 12-18-2006
I called him....
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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 5:28pm

History: Dated for 6 months. Said he needed space, time to think, a break for a few days. Said he wanted to keep talking, do what we can and if it's meant to be it's meant to be. He texted me 2 days later and called me the day after that and then I never heard from him again. (this was 2 weeks ago).

This past Friday night, I had a very strong urge to call him. And I was feeling good, not sad and depressed. I called, left a brief message and he called back an hour later. We had a nice conversation and he said he thought he'd never hear from me again and he thought that was it. He said "I'm glad you called". We agreed to keep talking and then he said 'good nite', i said the same, and now it's Tuesday and I haven't heard from him.

Question is: Should I wait for him to call me to see if he really does want to maintain contact or--there is an event this coming weekend that I know he would really enjoy. Do I send him a casual/fun email and ask him if he wants to go with me?

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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: kitsy200
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 5:51pm
If you are worried that he hasn't called then my guess is that you want more than a friendship and you may end up getting hurt. Invite him if you want, but be prepared for anything.


Carrie

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kitsy200
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 6:24pm

Are you really over him that quickly and ready to be friends? That would be unusual but if so, sure, invite him.

But otherwise, I think it's actually a good thing that he hasn't called you...it's most likely way too soon for you two to try to be friends.

Or are you hoping to get back together? Sorry, I couldn't quite tell from your post. If that's the case, then NO, for sure I wouldn't ask him to go; I'd leave the ball in his court.

Sheri

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Registered: 12-18-2006
In reply to: kitsy200
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 6:40pm
No, I'm definitely not over him and I don't want to be friends with him. I'm hoping to get back together. The way we left it is completely up in the air. He wants to see where it goes. I KNOW where I want it to go. But all throughout our relationship, he needed a little push with things. When we met, he gave me his number. I told him to take my number and call me. He said 'just call me. i don't play games'. I called him. Then for our first date, I had to initiate the conversation. I finally said "don't you want to see me this weekend?!" So he does need a little push every now and again. I REALLY REALLY want to see him this coming weekend. I miss him so much.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kitsy200
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 7:01pm

Well, did you already gave him a 'little push' by calling him last week? I think calling him AGAIN would be more than a little push and that you'd be setting yourself up to be hurt and disappointed.

He knows the door is open; you made that clear by calling him. If he wants to walk through it, he'll contact you.

Sheri

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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: kitsy200
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 7:53pm

NO don't call.

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