I cannot believe she is doing this to me

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Registered: 03-08-2007
I cannot believe she is doing this to me
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Wed, 03-21-2007 - 4:35pm

So, I don't contact her, and she contacts me to say that her wireless network isn't working at home and she wants me to help her fix it.

I help her fix it, then we talk about her daughter, and her work and stuff, then she says she will write me the check to pay me back.

Basically, she shares intimate details with me about work and her daughter, and then tells me we still cannot be together.

Now I am back at square one and all the emotions come pouring out while I am on the phone with her and she gets mad and hangs up.

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Registered: 05-04-2006
Thu, 03-22-2007 - 11:59am

Read Steven Carter's He's Scared She's Scared....You'll recognize HER behaviour...but you'll also recognize YOUR behaviour.

The first step to recovery is finding the issues and getting to the core of how to break the habits that got you there.

I'm getting there...I leave my club...I feel better much faster now than last week.

Hopefully by next week I'll be able to go and stay and just ignore her.

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