i cant leave him alone.
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| Sun, 06-25-2006 - 2:24pm |
ok so iv been on there before. my bf and i broke up about a month and half ago. and its been the worse time of my life. iv been way too stressed and really bitchy.so i tell my self im not going to see /call him.. but i wanna so bad. i stopped calling him for about a week. but i still saw him at school.finals came up and i really needed his help studying like seriously.. but he couldnt??? then i bombbed the test..but weeks went by and we talked here and there. and hes really been there for me latley. right after we broke up he started talking to this other girl. but then the girl ends up getting this with other guy and basically screws him over and i thought i was happy about that.. but im not. well i am. but im sad that hes not happy. and hes got'n really depressing. he promised me that we would hang out this summer..becuase we would be ready to. but hes not...but i told him that he should be? because im the way who should be having the problems with it..and he said that maybe hes doing worse then i am.. which bugged me. becuase even tho im not ready to see him, he should be ready to see me. so we stopped talking for like 3 days.. then he started getting really pissy with me. he told me he still had feelings for me, so now im really confused. but he went up north for about 4 days. the first night.. he called me??? and he never calls me.. ever. and we talked for about an hour which was the weirdest thing ever because we nevvver talk and it was nice! he didnt fight or talk about our relationship or anything. and he still says those little things as if we're still together...and its frustrating. because i just wanna tell him i love him.. hes not going good at all. i wanna him back but i dontknow what to do... fight or leave it alone?? does he still have those feelings for me?
the kid is bugging me..hes confusing and sending messed up signs? but should i let him go? even tho im sure we're suppose to be together...

Honestly, I don't know exactly what I should say to you.
It sounds like he is really confused, about what I don't know.
So hopefully by me posting a reply it will get bumped back up to the top and you will get some constructive advice.
~Amber~
Hi, I'm sorry it's been confusing for you lately (to say the least) but if he's got this much back-and-forth going on in his life, maybe it's best if you take a breather from him for a while.