I did it today just now.........

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
I did it today just now.........
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Thu, 11-23-2006 - 12:09pm
I have not been on this board for sometime. I am here today because after seven years I am walking away this is hard I am not crying yet because we have left each other so many times before today, I guess it was pratice for the real thing. We have a son together so I know we will have some kind of contact for a while our son is only six. I do not not know if I should be on this board?? This guy I am leaving he stayed with another women the whole time we were together. This is the story, when I met him he said he was single than after I had been seeing him for a while I found out he was living with another woman sad to say I fell in love and after that I got pregrant and he promise me 1000 of time he would leave her so we could be a family and I was such a fool to listern to his lies all that time.
lydia Barefood
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Thu, 11-23-2006 - 12:30pm

You are not a fool. You were in love and hoping for the best. Now that you know beyond a doubt (no denial here) that he's a liar and a cheat. This is not the role model you want for your son.

You will have to process a lot of grief and it won't always be easy, but you will get through it. My best to you on your healing path.


Carrie