I Did It...Now Why Does It Hurt So Much?
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I Did It...Now Why Does It Hurt So Much?
| Mon, 12-18-2006 - 12:10am |
I took you ladies' advice, and deleted his emails, now why does it hurt so bad?? I just want this to be over. I still miss him, and I still love him, but I know that he isn't coming back to me. He is married, and I should just accept it and move on. The problem is, HOW do I do that??? The only comforting thing is knowing that it could have been me that he was married to, and cheating on. At least I don't have to put up with his c**p anymore. I just wish the pain would go away...
Shelly/21/TX


Grieving is a process and takes time. We all wish there was a 'magic pill' to make it all go away. Writing him some good hate UNSENT letters can help vent out your feelings too.
Sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie
I wish the pain would stop too. I miss my ex so much. I miss the tone of his voice and the joking around. I just miss him as a whole, but he was cheating on me and I had to end it. This was in October.
I check this message board frequently. I read what people write and I respond. It makes me feel better offering any advice that I can give.
I also try to keep myself really, really busy. I consume myself with things to do so that I don't think about him.
I can tell you to forget about him and move on with your life because that's all I've been hearing these days myself. It's much easier said than done.
Keep yourself as busy as possible, go out with your girlfriends, go shopping and do things that you really enjoy doing. Eventually, they tell me it will get easier and I'm sure it will.
Good luck.
GH