I did a very stupid thing!

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Registered: 05-06-2011
I did a very stupid thing!
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Fri, 05-06-2011 - 1:56am

Hello, I have been lurking on this board but this is my first post.

I broke up with my boyfriend

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Fri, 05-06-2011 - 8:59am

moonfru1t, it may help to remember that seeing her message doesn't change anything. It doesn't take the distance away, it doesn't bring back the relationship. If he contacts you it won't change anything either. You have to deal with the fact that things are going to be the way they are regardless of any of this. So you can fret over these trivial details if you want to but just know it doesn't change anything at all.