i know that for me (i got broken up with about a month ago) i tried to find a new boy very quickly because i thought it would help the hopeless feelings i was having. in the end, speneding time with my new boy just reminded me of everything i missed about my ex (that my new boy lacked). it was far too soon for me to see anyone new because i needed (and still need...) time to get over my ex. basically, i was trying to distract myself with a new boyfriend and it ended up just making me miss the old one more. you need to give yourself time to be alone. i know being alone hurts sometimes, but you really just need some time to reflect on everything, and move on. you can't force yourself to be over someone if your not ready. for me, right after my breakup it didnt feel RIGHT being with someone else. it felt like i was...cheating on my ex or something. it was very strange cause in the back of my mind i knew he didnt care about me, but it was a clear sign that i needed to give myself time. if you're having weird feelings about a new relationship already you just really need to give yourself some TIME to breathe, cry, be with friends, and whatever else you may need to do to move on. give it time and do things for yourself. the best of luck!
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i know that for me (i got broken up with about a month ago) i tried to find a new boy very quickly because i thought it would help the hopeless feelings i was having. in the end, speneding time with my new boy just reminded me of everything i missed about my ex (that my new boy lacked). it was far too soon for me to see anyone new because i needed (and still need...) time to get over my ex. basically, i was trying to distract myself with a new boyfriend and it ended up just making me miss the old one more. you need to give yourself time to be alone. i know being alone hurts sometimes, but you really just need some time to reflect on everything, and move on. you can't force yourself to be over someone if your not ready. for me, right after my breakup it didnt feel RIGHT being with someone else. it felt like i was...cheating on my ex or something. it was very strange cause in the back of my mind i knew he didnt care about me, but it was a clear sign that i needed to give myself time. if you're having weird feelings about a new relationship already you just really need to give yourself some TIME to breathe, cry, be with friends, and whatever else you may need to do to move on. give it time and do things for yourself. the best of luck!