I dont know if breaking up is right...

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Registered: 05-17-2011
I dont know if breaking up is right...
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Tue, 05-17-2011 - 6:40pm

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 05-17-2011 - 9:47pm
Staying in contact will ensure that you do not get over him. He is very selfish to ask that of you.
The fact that this is your first breakup speaks volumes. My first relationship ended similarly and I felt like my world had ended. But we moved on and I am so much happier with someone who is more compatible with the person I have grown into.
I do not know if you will get together again in the future. But if you dwell on that thought too long, you deprive yourself of the chance to heal. Things always get better.