I don't know what to do.

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Registered: 02-11-2006
I don't know what to do.
Mon, 04-24-2006 - 8:03pm

My boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for about 8 months and just recently we had a conversation about some things we have done in the past and what our living arrangments will be when he moves in here, if he moves here(he might not graduate on time), at the end of July. We had different ideas, so we were both alittle uncomfortable with talking to eachother for awhile after he had a little fight about it. Something has changed between that time and now, it's been about a week. We both realized something was different, we even tried to figure out what it could be, came up with all sorts of things, apparently it went away for him though and i know it hasn't for me. I still don't know what it is and it bothers me. But our relationship isn't as good as it was a week ago. I don't get the butterflies or have the excitement anymore at all. I still love him and care about him, still think about him and want to be with him, but yet this feeling..i don't know what to do. I know it's not a good feeling either, we started fighting all the time..talking less and less..and less. He said he's very stressed out so that's why he has been acting differently lately but i feel like that is NOT an excuse to in turn treat someone badly, he doesn't think the things he does/says are hurtful or rude but i do, so then we argue about it. I feel like we aren't getting along anymore, probably because we aren't.

But why?