I don't know what to do....?? cry daily
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| Wed, 11-28-2007 - 8:43am |
How do I tell her I want to be with her?
This girl and I were together for over a year and a half, great relationship but she moved to a different state b/c of school. I love her and I want to be with her, I think she is the one. I didn't get to tell her that before she left, but that is how I feel. The goodbye was very tearful. And she still calls me every day and tells me she loves me and misses me, it has been a week. I never told h er how I felt because early on we decided that when her time here was up we were going to end it and remain friends. She is coming back for a day or 2 in December, to do something for school and has asked to stay with me. How do you suggest I tell her that I want to be with her and that I love her so much.? Should I wait til she is here? Any advice, please I want to be with her so bad. I don't want to ask her to marry me right now because i want that to be special and at a time that we are both ready, But I want to be with her, have no problem moving.
ALSO, I can tell things are a lot different with her than others, other serious girls I have been with, I have not cried over this much or really thought about this much. Should I tell her that too? I've never cried daily like this after anyone, and I have had serious relationships in the past.
We are 25 and 26 years old

Welcome to the board pts4560,
So if you don't think a LDR will work for you, what do you want to happen when you tell her how you feel?
Well in reality yes, I think I am ready to do that, move to where she is. I mean when is the right time that you know that you want to be with someone?
She has told me before that she wouldn't want me to drop everything and just move and change my life for her. But I don't know how she feels now, probably the same.
I mean I've had a long relationship like this before and I didn't feel this way at all. I don't know. I just want to be with her, you know?
And I do really want to talk to her when she comes here in December, but I don't know if I should tell her, because as soon as I do she will want me to tell her now. And I'm sure as soon as I tell her I want to talk she will think it is about me wanting to be with her.
What would be the best thing to do about that?