I DON'T miss him because:

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Registered: 02-21-2007
I DON'T miss him because:
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Fri, 03-02-2007 - 3:11pm

-he chose Valentine's to let me know he had to "figure himself out." Please. Which also upsets me even more, because we were both busy Valentine's, so the day before we had gone to Victoria's Secret, bought some fun things, and planned to celebrate when we both had a whole day for each other. So much for that. Makes me sick.

-he never told his parents or friends about me. How important can I be?

-he is way too involved in World of Warcraft in my opinion. (there is a reason this is called e-crack.) When he pretty much has to be home 3 nights a week for raids and stays up 36 hours straight when the expansion comes out so he can get to level 70 as quickly as possible... that's a little too much. He always wanted me to start playing, but his ex gf plays too. Ugh. No thanks. I may not have much of a life, but at least I'm not addicted to a machine.

-he said he wanted to stay friends through this and make sure I was okay, but yet other than just passing him at work and saying "hi" to each other, we haven't spoken in 5 days. He must not be all that concerned. And hell if I'm going to call or text at this point. It takes all my control most days, but I'm just not going to do it.

-he snores. At least I sleep better, lol.

-on the day of my divorce hearing, he didn't call to support me, I called *him.* I can never forget that feeling.

-I was working really hard on issues I knew I had from my previous relationship. I wanted to work things out this time, change so things would be different, because this one I thought would last.

-I was getting tired of always being the one to do the nice little things. To always be the first one to text in the morning. It takes two to tango, and I don't always want to lead.


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Registered: 03-08-2007
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 5:19pm
LOL - your item #1, he did the same thing, and i had myself convinced that it was so "great" that he was "comfortable" around me. which is true to a degree, but really, sometimes it's just nasty...haahhahaha. WHY do we give these guys so much time and thought, ladies????
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Registered: 02-28-2007
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 5:25pm
Im not quite sure... but i sure am going to read that list everytime i feel bad about ending it. Just because they are comfortable around us, doesn't give them the right to hoxbox us. Sometimes its funny, but after a while... its just gross.
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Registered: 01-01-2007
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 5:38pm

Reasons I don't miss him:
*He would also fart like it was going out of style and not care that I was in the room.
Gross!

*I don't have to wake up to him sawing logs all night so that I can't get back to sleep.
I can't tell you how many times I kicked and screamed and slept on the sofa. UGH.

*He no longer asks me to pay for dinner or order pizza (his idea) and expects me to pay.
C'mon, like I'm made of money.

*Out of the break up I get to keep the cutest dog in the world. She's my life and I know
he loves her... but I get her. HAA HAA HAA

*He can call someone else (sarcastically or not) Big Man, Fat Stripper--there's a story
behind that one that I'll tell you all another time, Ass Back etc.

*I no longer have to babysit him while out at a bar b/c he's had too much to drink and
is out of control. Maybe someone else will think it's funny that he's slurring his words
laying the bar or sitting on a stool wtg to fall off with his eyes closed. Pathetic!

*I'm saving money by not having to feed him, only paying half the rent and utility bills.

There are tons more reasons but these are what come to mind first.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2007
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 7:04pm
Girls, I am so sorry, but what is "hotbox". Not a term used in my age groupl, although all the other attributes on your lists are applicable to a 60 year old male!
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Registered: 02-28-2007
Thu, 03-08-2007 - 9:26pm
a HOTBOX is a term used when a guy farts while in bed and then he pulls the sheets and blanket over your head and traps you with the smell. It's also called a dutch oven. It's immature and horrible.
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Registered: 03-08-2007
Fri, 03-09-2007 - 1:09am
GOT IT!!! I think my ex thought that was horribly cute! Just didn't know the official name. Different generations call it different things. LOL Love it!

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