i feel like dieing

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
i feel like dieing
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Fri, 12-28-2007 - 6:05pm

Hi Everyone,


This is my first time posting on this board, and thought that maybe someone out there can give me some insight.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:23pm

I keep fighting what everyone on here is telling me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2004
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:41pm

Daisy,


I know this is the hardiest situation to get over, especially since you were blindsided. You want answers, and you deserve them, but you have to realize and accept, he doesn't want to give you answers right now. Maybe one day he will, but

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:46pm

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As I said before, my

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:46pm
Funny I am in the midst of typing him an email as we speak.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:49pm

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..send it to yourself


Sleep on it for 24 hours and send it to yourself again


It is not going to get you any answers. If he wanted to tell you, he would've.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2004
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:55pm
Don't you send that email. You already know your being pathetic, so why send it??? Don't you know, by sending that email, you will look weak to him, and I guarantee you, he won't be happy to receive that email. Write it, and send it yourself. Read it, and throw it away. The more you contact him, the more you help him justify, why he broke it off with you. Your only helping him, and when he begins to hurt you with words, because he's going to feel your stalking him, he will get mean and it will only hurt you worse. Don't do it!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:59pm
I don't know what else to do.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 1:08pm

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Exactly the reason you need to go NC.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2004
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 1:10pm

You should be thankful he's being nice, since you continue to contact him. But eventually he will begin to get mean, and it will hurt you. I know, I've been there, and trust me, it's not a good feeling. Do you want to

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 1:43pm
Leaving the house is too painful right now.