I feel like a fool

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2003
I feel like a fool
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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 12:56am
He tried to do it to me again. For a little background: He went into the hospital a couple of weeks ago for an emergency appendectomy. We were supposed to talk about the status of our relationship that Saturday. He really acted as if he wanted to work things out. Since he got out of the hospital we have been talking about when we were going to sit down and had this discussion. He had decided it would be this weekend because he was supposed to get released to drive by the doctor yesterday. He knew it was important for me to let me know how his doctors appointment went so I expected he would call yesterday afternoon. I have not heard a word from him since Tuesday. He has gone back to trying to play on my emotions. I also learned about some things he said about me tonight. I'm beyond hurt. I'm finally angry. When he finally does decide to call me, he's not going to like what he hears coming from my end IF I decide to talk to him. Unfortunately, I will have to talk to him to make arrangements to return his items. But I am through this time for good. We are adults and he is behaving like a teenager. It's absolutely ridiculous. Ok, I'm done venting now. Thanks.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-15-2004
Sat, 07-24-2004 - 1:25am
Isn't it funny that no matter how old we get it feels like we are battling the same problems within our relationships? lol. Well, I just wanted to say that I think what you are doing is great...it might be hard, but if he is jerking you around you need to leave him, you don't deserve that. So don't wast anymore of your time on this guy.