i feel terrible :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
i feel terrible :(
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Thu, 07-26-2007 - 3:37am
since the breakup i have been writting a lot on these boards and its been helpful. but today i just feel sooooooo miserable and i am full of sadness. ive been crying all day ( technically ive been crying for 2 weeks) and its not getting better. i miss him :( and i still love him and i still hope and wish hell change his mind. but he wont and im just sitting around being miserable :( how in the world do i make myself feel better?!?!?!
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Registered: 06-06-2007
Thu, 07-26-2007 - 8:14am
I'll tell you what I've done. I've taken almost every opportunity to go out to dinner, the pool, events in town, fundraiser walks...all with friends I have or new ones I have made. Keep busy. Go out and do something. It is the best medicine and keeps your mind off of feeling lousy. I also have been going to the gym because it is Also the best medicine for my mental health...burns off anger and makes me feel proud of myself after going (which it's been since Friday so I'd better get back in there LOL). It really does help. Sitting around in my apartment got really old and I knew I had to get out and start living...thus my screen name.
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 07-26-2007 - 12:59pm

there are plenty of suggestions here, and they work.


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=21185.1


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Registered: 07-25-2007
Thu, 07-26-2007 - 1:28pm
Oh My God. I feel the same way. I was so upset that we broke up just a few weeks ago. And I was hoping he'd change his mind. We've taken a few breaks in the past, and then got back together. THEN, I found out that he is seeing another girl which is making me SICK! All I keep doing is thinking about her and him. I can't handle that thought. I know we need to move on...and try to stay positive, but it's so hard. I love him so much and just want things to be back to normal. Everyone keeps telling me that it's OVER and that I need to move on. I am miserable and sick over this. I can't stop crying either. I guess talking about it and trying to focus on good things will help. I just wish I could stop picturing those two together. It makes me sick to think of another woman's hands on a man that I love and considered special to only me. I wish you luck and hope that things work out for you. My only advice (which I should've taken myself) is to give him the space he needs. Act like you are totally cool and act like you want your space. Let him think that you are moving on. He will notice. I wish I did it, but instead I just cried to him and told him how much I missed him. Big mistake. Play it cool. Beleive me, it will work. Be strong!