I had a slip !! Now I need to get on Trk

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Registered: 08-31-2010
I had a slip !! Now I need to get on Trk
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Mon, 09-27-2010 - 1:39pm

Hello, I have been doing well not contacting my ex and Boom I called we got together I keep it very general since he wanted to be friends and now we slept together !! Right after I blocked his calls again I am confused but not confused I see him for what he is I do still love him unfortunatly but I realize there will never be no us we dont want the samethings out of life !

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Mon, 09-27-2010 - 2:58pm

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Mon, 09-27-2010 - 7:09pm

Sandra, Thanks for your advice I know having sex with him was not the best thing to do! I guess problem with me is occupying my time ! Have you ever had a tough time moving on and what did you do to make things better I keep counting days and making it a race or a goal I guess thats the competitve side of me.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 1:20pm

Tough time moving on:

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Fri, 10-01-2010 - 4:59pm
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm going through the exact same thing. We had broken up for almost a month and then I called him. While I did become a little stronger emotionally, I still have feelings for him. I'm realizing however, he is not putting anything into the relationship except phone calls. Today I told him I was bringing him something to eat (he stated he has a sore throat) after work, and when I got there he was not home. If he doesn't call this evening with an explanation I won't be calling him again. I think he only wanted me for sex. I'm going to start doing things for me. All that energy and devotion I'm putting into him; I could be giving to myself. Good luck to you, and stay strong! :)
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Fri, 10-01-2010 - 7:36pm

I appreciate you responding its tuff for me because I talked to him about so much I feel dumb often because I myself just being nice took him food often when he was sick like you were doing but obviously he wasnt appreciative and still hasnt gotten the just of what type of person you are to treat you well I am hoping to move and and never look back and if I do look back only to laugh at myself you telling me after a month and you called him he still is a jerk ugghhh I guess I still have that feeling of wanting him know how good of a girl I am and good of a friend I was to him but its clear he will never going to get it.