I hear her steps
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I hear her steps
| Thu, 03-15-2007 - 3:41pm |
I don't know if anyone can comment on this, but I haven't spoken to my ex. in 13 days, but I think of her and her new boyfriend all the time. She lives right above me and I can hear her steps and I can tell when she is on the phone etc. I sometimes run into her, she makes this withdrawing gesture to me to let me know (I think) thant I'm unwelcome. I know I'll still benefit from not talking to her...but I actually hear her walking, like she's right there...I want to get over her and move on or whatever. Thank you.

The best thin to do here Is to move out to another apt. You hear her steps, you will soon hear her making love with her boyfriend...and that could be very unpleasant and hurtful for you.
Good luck!
I agree try to move out. Maybe you can sublet your place until the lease runs out. Do you have a friend who would be willing to take you in for a little while while you look for a new place?
I have to drive by my ex's place every once in a while since it is off of a major street and it makes me uneasy.
Best of luck to you!
Hi cfrenzy,
Have you thought about moving? Staying out later with friends so you aren't home most of the time she's home?