I know I need to tell him to leave

I've spent almost 9 months trying to fix what has been broken for over a year and a half. Today was the hardest day ever just looking at him, he repulses me, but I let him stay. Money, so sad isn't it. I am trapped, because I know he won't help, he doesn't now. He has no respect for himself, he lets our daughters live like animals, so long as they leave him alone with his computer spends days without changing his clothes or showering, reeking like an ash tray. My family lives 5 hours away his 45 min and his can't be bothered. I feel like all I do is pick after him, fix his mess. I worked hours of overtime to get us out of his debt, helped save our home, now I work just to get away from him. I have to find a way and soon, I can't handle this much longer. Thanks for the venting....

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