i know our time has come to an end

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2004
i know our time has come to an end
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Thu, 12-30-2004 - 3:35pm

just to give an update:

dating a man for 16months, will be divorced at the end of next month, and has two children.

well today ive been emailing bf back and forth all day and he said that in the end he misses seeing his children everyday, hearing their voices at night, cleaning up after them, helping them through every problem they have, missing alot of his daughters first and not having them around everyday, all day is making him incomplete. but he also said he misses being a husband and provider because it has always been his role. he said that the reason he didnt and hasnt thrown away the photo album is becuase he misses alot of those memories in that book and in his heart does want alot of them back. he said he wishes he tried marraige counseling and is considering going back. he wont talk to me about our relationship but in our hearts i think we both know whats going to happen, i just never thought in the end he would go back to something i thought made him so miserable, but maybe it was all just a dream and now its time to get back to reality.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2004
Fri, 12-31-2004 - 4:45pm
I'm sorry to hear that things are having to end this way....but it's better to find this out now...rather than months or years down the line.
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