i lost my best friend

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Registered: 04-30-2007
i lost my best friend
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 3:43pm
My boyfriend of 3 months just broke up with me and I am incredible sad. He has being my best friend for 3yrs and it hurts so much because i have lost him as a friend. We were both in different relationships and didnt do anything about our feelings. I left my husband a year ago and he left his girlfriend a couple of months and soon after he did we decided to go for it but he has changed his mind. I know we both love each other very much but his excuse is that it is very soon for him to be in a serious relaionship. He says that ive being doing the single life for a year and i guess he wants to be single and roam around. The worst thing is we also work together! I dont know how to deal with seeing him everyday and not be able to be how we were.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 4:21pm

Welcome to the board chuladee,


Sorry you have to go through this.


Here's some reading material:


How To Get Over Your Breakup

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Registered: 04-30-2007
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 5:43pm
thanks! its just so hard to imagine us not being together not so much in the romantic way but the friendship. plus i do truly love and have for a long time.