i love him_can't have him - how move on?

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Registered: 11-04-2006
i love him_can't have him - how move on?
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Sat, 11-04-2006 - 6:18pm

Good news - I'm sorry but I had to delete the details of my message. I am having a sense of clarity with my situation now and didn't want it to be public anymore. thank you for all of your support.

General story: Fell in love with the man of my dreams. It is a perfect love, we love each other at the core and it is a very healthy relationship. We were happy. Something tragic happened and we can no longer express our feelings for each other the way we once did. We are both devasted. I have learned about the grieving process of the loss of a loved one and although we are both very much alive the pain and healing process is the same. This is what I recommend to anyone trying to deal/grieve with the loss of a relationship.

Best to everyone - you will be happy again.

Edited 11/4/2006 11:03 pm ET by pgirl1221




Edited 11/4/2006 11:07 pm ET by pgirl1221
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 12:28pm

This is a response to your previous post.

Acceptance that he will never be yours will give you the strength to move on. You won't forget because he IS the love of your life, but you'll heal.

His behavior shows somewhat that may not stand and speak up for what he believes in. Perhaps, he's got a weak character. He seem to be easily influenced and affected by committment, even if it means being miserabe for the rest of his life.