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| Wed, 02-16-2005 - 2:20pm |
So i have posted on here recently about how my boyfriend "broke up" with me almost 2 weeks ago saying he needed time and wasn't happy with himself and didn't want a girlfriend...i was devastated. I had these tickets to a bulls game that i bought him for valentines day and he said he didn't know if we should go togehter because it might make things more confusing than they already are. Well it ended up he said he wanted to go with me...i told him i didn't want him to come with if he was only doing it becuase he felt bad or like he had to...he said no that's not it.
So we went last night and had the absolute best time...we have so much fun together and get along so well and have so much in common and just laugh...in the car on the way home he said to me that he just isn't ready for a girlfriend and that he doesn't know what's wrong with him becuase he likes being alone. I told him so when will you be ready..when you're 50? (he's almost 30)so we got to his place and went in a watched a movie and cuddled and then when i left i went to give him his stuff back and he said "just keep it, i have your stuff inside and i don't want to go back in a get it now" so i asked him if that meant i will see him again and he said "why woudln't you" I then told him i want him to be honest wtih me...if he is not attracted to me or thinks i'm annoying or whatever i want to know instead of him saying he needs to get himself together. And he said that he was being completely honest taht there is nothing wrong with me..that he is trying to find something wrong with me but he can't. He asked if i could just give him some time...that he likes me so much he loves being with me, but he can't be with someone till he is together...he said all his friends tell him he needs to grow up and he said he can't explain in..maybe he got scared because he knows we were getting serious and he knows he can't even take care of himself right now let alone me too.
So now what...it eneded him saying i could call him too i shoudln't wait for him to call me and that we'll see each other again..but i just watn to know what time means..like how long...and i just hope he wasn't saying it to me to be nice.
I just really really like him..i told him i'd give him time because i care abotu him so much.
what do you think?

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I am in a similar sitution but I agree with the others.....don't contact him. It doesn't sound like there's someone else, he just sounds confused.
I haven't heard from my (i'm going to call him my ex-boyfriend) boyfriend since last Thursday and I don't think he'll contact me at all, actually. I am deciding to move on. He has way more issues than I can handle and I really want someone who wants me and knows he does.
Take care
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