I need advice, Please help
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| Tue, 12-28-2004 - 1:25pm |
I am new to this board I posted a few days ago for the first time, I really need some advice and I figured that since the people here don't know me personally they may be able to offer adivce. Family and friends are one-sided in situations like these.
My now ex cheated on me a fews months back and got another women pregnant, As soon as I found out he cheated I made him move out of my home but I continued to deal with him off/on. I did not find out about the pregnancy until a few weeks ago. I told him that we can never get back together and I will not except his other child, He always apologizing saying he made a big mistake and tells me how much he loves me (supposely)he always buying me gifts and taking me out places thinking that will make everything alright.
My biggest problem is I really love him we have a 9 month old little boy together and its hard for me to just let go, I still except his calls gifts and money, even though I am constantly telling him we can't have anything together. I know I should refuse his gifts and money but its hard. He asked me could we spend New Years together and I did not say anything. Today is his birthday I did not call him and he called me at work and thats when I said happy birthday. How can I just let go cold turkey, I am so tired of this emotional roller coaster I am on.
Has anyone else ever been in a situation like this? Any advice would help!
| Tue, 12-28-2004 - 3:23pm |
