i need all your input and advice!!
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i need all your input and advice!!
| Mon, 12-05-2005 - 5:48am |
i had posted a few times on this board a while back ...3 weeks ago my ex called and told me he got engaged and wanted to invite me to his engagement party and he even had the nerve to tell me if i was sincere about how sorry i was when were fighting ..then he would postpone the party ...he had called me once last week and left no message...then yesterday he called me and left me a message....he said...he is not engaged anymore and beg me to call him back...he even used the word PLEASE!!!i know he will call again .i am tired of explaining things to him anymore..please any advice..i know consiously i am fighting a losing battle with him...i want it to stop!!

So he calls you to say he's engaged, having an engagement party, invites you, BUT if you will say you are sorry, he will call it off. What kind of cr@p is that? That's mind games at the fullest. You are to blame for him getting engaged. You have the power to have him call it off. Did he just want to make you jealous and made up the story or is there a real woman involved and if so, how terrible of him to use her and treat her this way.
Block his number, get a new cell number, something, anything so you don't have to deal with him.
Carrie
He considers you like a toy - he plays at times, throws at times, ignores at times - but he's not involved with the toy for the benefit of the toy.
Simple...quit explaining yourself attempting to validation, approval, or affirmation from someone who thinks you being down and squirming is "your place".
Stop talking to him period...there's no respect or admiration of character on either side - why affiliate at all.
Erin
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